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How to Compete When You're Being Evaluated

Tryouts are different because part of your attention can start watching yourself while you compete.

The more you monitor whether you're making the team, impressing coaches, or keeping up with other athletes, the harder it can be to stay connected to the actual job in front of you.

Start Here

Shift from “How am I doing?” to “What am I doing?”

“How am I doing?” pulls your attention toward evaluation.

You start checking:

Did the coach see that?
Am I playing well enough?
Did that mistake hurt my chances?
How do I compare to everyone else?

Those questions are understandable, but they do not give you much to do.

A better question is:

What is my job right now?

Common evaluation traps

Notice when your attention leaves the tryout

Watching the evaluators

Checking coaches' reactions can pull attention away from the next rep.

Comparing constantly

Trying to rank yourself against every athlete makes it harder to stay connected to your own performance.

Trying to erase mistakes immediately

One mistake can become two when you rush, force, or over-correct to make up for it.

Trying to prove yourself on every rep

Evaluation pressure can make ordinary decisions feel like they need to become spectacular ones.

When evaluation pulls you away

NOTICE → RECONNECT → GO

1 · Notice

Where did my attention go?

Catch yourself thinking about selection, comparisons, coaches' reactions, or the last mistake.

2 · Reconnect

What is my job right now?

Return to one cue from your Tryout Job.

“See it early.”
“Stay aggressive.”
“Talk.”
“Win this rep.”

3 · Go

Compete the next action

You do not need to know how the tryout is going before you can compete the next rep well.

What this can look like

Competing inside the evaluation

Volleyball

You get blocked twice

Evaluation thought:
“They're going to think I can't score.”

Reconnect:
“High hands. Next swing.”

Baseball

You strike out in your first at-bat

Evaluation thought:
“I already blew my chance.”

Reconnect:
“Win the next pitch.”

Soccer

Another player makes a great play

Evaluation thought:
“They're better than me.”

Reconnect:
“Scan. Move. Be available.”

Before the tryout

Know your job before evaluation starts

Compete

Choose your quality

How do you want to show up regardless of outcome?

Attend

Choose your cues

What one or two things help you perform your role well?

Respond

Choose your reset

What will you return to after a mistake or evaluation thought?

Individual Support

Want more individualized support?

If tryout pressure, confidence, overthinking, or fear of evaluation is affecting performance, ASPP offers one-on-one non-clinical mental-performance coaching for athletes and families.